Listen: If you are having trouble with Sexting,
I can relate…
Girls won’t make the process of “escalation”
easy for you. In fact, you will often feel confused
as to whether or not she even likes you…
Sometimes she gives you signs that she
likes you… while other times she seems
uninterested. She will often send mixed signals,
leaving you unable to tell if she is being flirty or
just friendly.
If you read her signals wrong, you risk
rejection and embarrassment. Or WORSE… you
never make a move and you blow it with a girl
who might have wanted your escalation.
However, it’s important to eventually escalate
a conversation. If you don’t escalate with a girl…
and you only talk about “safe” topics… she will
quickly lose interest and look for a guy who has
the guts to escalate.
With this in mind, I want to give you a simple
and innocent tactic to ESCALATE over text…
without much risk.
It’s called “Plausible Deniability”
Using Plausible Deniability to Escalate into Sexting, and Turn Her On…
Knowing how to use plausible deniability,
allows you to ESCALATE a texting conversation
into a sexting conversation… all while minimizing
REJECTION.
If you learn this tool, and use it correctly,
you will be more SMOOTH and less overtly
sexual…
…and you will lower the risk of a girl
reacting negatively to an overtly sexual text.
So check it out: In order to introduce
sexuality into a conversation, you MUST be
willing to escalate… and that always includes
some risk.
Unfortunately, since it’s via text, we can’t
really see how she’s reacting, right?
So, here’s the deal. We need to find ways to
escalate that will give us plausible deniability
Let me say that again… because it’s the
primary tactic for text escalation.
Tactic: Find Ways to Escalate That Give You
Plausible Deniability
Now I can already here you say… “but
Frankie, what does plausible deniability even
mean?!”
Plausible deniability is the idea that one can
deny knowledge of something because he has
deliberately made himself unaware of said
something.
In other words, the words you use to escalate
via text are ambiguous such that your intentions
can be playfully denied.
Want an example? Here’s one:
Girl: The test was so hard 🙁
Guy: I’m sorry it was so hard 😉
The word hard, as you might be aware, is a
sexual innuendo… and a sexual innuendo is a
type of plausible deniability… because it is
ambiguous language.
In the example, the guy put out “bait” to see if
the girl “plays along” with the sexual innuendo. If
she does… it’s ON!
But if the girl accuses the guy of being sexual,
the guy can deny it and say he was talking about
the test being hard. See what I mean?
Now you can STEAL this very same
principle… and use it to YOUR ADVANTAGE.
(This is something nobody else is doing)
So next time you see the opportunity… throw
out plausible deniability bait, and see if a girl
plays along. If she does… then you have
successfully escalated to the next step
Ok, how about I show you some more
plausible deniability “templates” that you can use
immediately. Sound good?
These templates are different frameworks
you can use to come up with MANY things to say
to a girl you want to escalate with.
Plausible Deniability Template: The Double Entendre
This is the easy (and sometimes cheesy) one.
A double entendre is saying something which
could have a double (sexual) meaning, a sexual
metaphor, or phonetic ambiguity (words sounding
the same).
You say it casually so you aren’t really directly
saying anything.
This include words and phrases like…
– “that’s big of you”
– “the test is so hard”
– “go down”
– “come/cum”
– getting wet…in the rain
…and anything that contains the words: come,
handle, fit, wet, inside, mouth, lips, dripping, eat,
mess, nail it, hard, give, hit, slide, on top, and
blow it.
Find clever ways to use the above words to
make a conversation more spicy.
Example:
You: just ate a life-changing omelette
Girl: well thats very big of you
You: You know, I’ve always been big 😉
Girl: i could take that literally or figuratively
You: I’d be happy if you’d take it in just about any
way 😉
Next time you are texting a girl, see if you can
find and use any words and phrases that have
double sexual meanings.
Always be on the look out so you don’t miss
the opportunity to escalate.
Feel free to steal these examples I just gave
you.
Or even better. Go brainstorm other ways to
use plausible deniability and adapt it to your own
style.
If you find this material useful, and find
yourself wanting more, then you really want to
become a master of “Seductive Wordplay”
I must admit, turning a girl on by typing words
on a phone, can be a very rewarding skill
(if you know what I mean) 😉
And luckily, there is a place where you can
quickly learn this skill… and use it to turn women on
immediately.
It’s all packaged up, in an easy step-by-step
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And that’s all for today…
In our next letter, I will show you more killer
plausible deniability tips
Talk soon.
Your friend,
Frankie